((1)) ﻭﻗﺒﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺒﺪﺃ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﺔ ..( ﺳﻢ ﺑﺎﻟﻠﻪ ) ﻭﺗﻮﻛﻞ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺃﺩﻋﻪ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻮﻓﻘﻚ ﺍﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺨﻴﺮ .
((2)) ﺃﻗﺮﺃ ﺍﻟﻘﻀﻴﺔ ﺟﻴﺪﺍً ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﺔ ﻭﺇﺫﺍ ﻟﻢ ﺗﺴﺘﻮﻋﺒﻬﺎ ﺃﻗﺮﺃﻫﺎ ﻣﺮﺍﺭﺍً ﻭﺗﻜﺮﺍﺭﺍ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺗﺴﺘﻄﻴﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺒﺪﻱ ﺭﺃﻳﻚ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ .
((3)) ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﺘﺐ ﺭﺃﻳﻚ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻘﺮﺃ ﺭﺩﻭﺩ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﻴﻦ ﻟﻠﻤﻮﺿﻮﻉ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻻﺗﺘﺄﺛﺮ ﺑﺄﺭﺍﺋﻬﻢ .
((4)) ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻟﺘﺴﻠﺴﻞ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺪﺭﺝ ﻓﻲ ﻃﺮﺡ ﺍﻟﻔﻜﺮﺓ ﻭﻻ ﺗﻌﻴﺪ ﻃﺮﺡ ﺍﻟﻔﻜﺮﺓ ﻷﻛﺜﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻣﺮﺓ ﺗﻌﺪﺩ ﺍﻷﺳﺎﻟﻴﺐ ﻭﺍﻟﻔﻜﺮﺓ ﻭﺍﺣﺪﺓ .
((5)) ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺑﻘﺪﺭ ﺍﻟﻤﺴﺘﻄﺎﻉ ﺑﺄﻥ ﻻ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﺭﺃﻳﻚ ﻣﺘﺄﺛﺮ ﺑﺄﺣﺪ ﺍﻷﻣﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﺨﺎﺭﺟﺔ ﻋﻦ ﺻﻠﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺿﻮﻉ (ﻛﺸﺨﺼﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﻜﺎﺗﺐ - ﺃﻭ ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﻛﺘﺎﺑﺘﻪ ﻭﻋﺮﺿﻪ - ﺃﻭ ﻟﻮﻥ ﺃﻭ ﺧﻂ ﻭﻏﻴﺮ ﺫﻟﻚ)
((6)) ﻟﻴﺲ ﺑﺎﻟﻀﺮﻭﺭﺓ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻛﻞ ﻛﻠﻤﺎﺗﻚ ﻣﻨﻤﻘﻪ ﺑﺄﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﺃﺩﺑﻲ ﻣﺤﻨﻚ..ﻭﻟﻜﻦ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﻢ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻛﻠﻤﺎﺗﻚ ﻣﻔﻬﻮﻣﻪ ﻟﻠﻘﺮﺍﺀ..( ﻭﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﺍﻟﺒﻌﺾ ﻗﺪ ﺗﺼﻠﻚ ﺃﻓﻜﺎﺭﻩ ﻭﻃﺮﺣﻪ ﺍﻟﺸﻴﻖ ﺑﺴﻼﺳﺔ ﻭﻗﻮﻩ ﻓﻲ ﻧﻔﺲ ﺍﻟﻮﻗﺖ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﻏﻢ ﻣﻦ ﺃﻧﻪ ﺃﺳﺘﺨﺪﻡ ﻟﻬﺠﺘﻪ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻣﻴﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﺔ)
((7)) ﺭﺍﺋﻊ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺴﺘﺸﻬﺪ ﺧﻼﻝ ﻣﻨﺎﻗﺸﺘﻚ ﺑﺂﻳﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻴﻤﺔ ﺃﻭ ﻣﻦﺳﻨﺔ ﺍﻟﻤﺼﻄﻔﻰ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺃﻓﻀﻞ ﺍﻟﺼﻼﺓ ﻭﺍﻟﺴﻼﻡ (( ﻭﻣﻬﻢ ﺟﺪﺍً ﺃﻥ ﺗﺘﺄﻛﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺤﺔ ﺍﻟﻤﺼﺪﺭ .. ﻭﻳﺎﺣﺒﺬﺍ ﻟﻮ ﺗﻜﺘﺐ ﺭﻗﻢ ﺍﻷﻳﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺴﻮﺭﺓ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻟﺮﺍﻭﻱ ﻭﺍﺳﻢ ﺍﻟﻜﺘﺎﺏ ﺍﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﻀﻢ ﺍﻟﺤﺪﻳﺚ )) ﺃﻭ ﻣﻦ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺓ ﺑﻘﺼﺺ ﺃﻭ ﺗﺠﺎﺭﺏ
((8)) ﺑﻌﺾ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﺎﺕ ﺗﺘﻄﻠﺐ ﻣﻨﻚ ﻓﻲ ﻧﻬﺎﻳﺘﻬﺎ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺴﺘﺨﻠﺺ ﺭﺃﻳﻚ ﺑﻜﻠﻤﺎﺕ ﻗﻠﻴﻠﺔ ﺗﻌﺒﺮ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﻋﻦ ﻭﺟﻬﺔ ﻧﻈﺮﻙ .
((9)) ﺇﻥ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﺍﻟﻘﻀﻴﺔ ﺗﺘﻄﻠﺐ ﺣﻠﻮﻝ ..ﺃﻃﺮﺡ ﺣﻠﻮﻝ ﻣﻦ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﻣﺠﺮﺏ ﺃﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻟﻮ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﻣﻦ ﺧﻴﺎﻟﻚ ﺗﺮﻯ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻤﻜﻦ ﺗﺤﻘﻴﻘﻬﺎ .
((10)) ﺍﻟﺒﻌﺪ ﻛﻞ ﺍﻟﺒﻌﺪ ﻋﻦ ﺗﺠﺎﻭﺯ ﺍﻷﺩﺏ ﻭﺍﻧﻌﺪﺍﻡ ﺍﻹﺣﺘﺮﺍﻡ ﺑﻴﻨﻚ ﻭﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﺘﺤﺎﻭﺭﻳﻦ ﻣﻬﻤﺎ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﺍﻟﻈﺮﻭﻑ ﺃﻭ ﺍﻷﺳﺒﺎﺏ ..(ﻭﺇﻻ ﻓﺎﻟﺼﻤﺖ ﺧﻴﺮ ﻟﻚ ﻟﻜﻲ ﻻﺗﻨﺪﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻛﻠﻤﺎﺕ ﻗﺪ ﻗﻠﺘﻬﺎ ﻟﺤﻈﺔ ﻏﻀﺐ ) .
((11)) ﺇﺫﺍ ﻭﺟﺪﺕ ﻣﻦ ﻟﻪ ﻭﺟﻬﺔ ﻧﻈﺮ ﺗﺨﺎﻟﻒ ﻭﺟﻬﺔ ﻧﻈﺮﻙ ﻭﻳﺤﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻥ ﻳﺴﺘﻔﺰﻙ ﺃﻭ ﻳﺜﻴﺮ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﺎﻛﻞ .. ﺣﺎﻭﻝ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻔﻬﻤﻪ ﺑﺄﺳﻠﻮﺏ ﻫﺎﺩﺉ (ﺣﺘﻰ ﻭﻟﻮ ﻛﻨﺖ ﺗﺸﺘﺎﻁ ﻏﻴﻀﺎً) ﻷﻧﻨﺎ ﻟﺴﻨﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺳﺎﺣﺔ ﻣﻌﺮﻛﺔ ﻭﻫﺬﻩ ﻣﺠﺮﺩ ﻗﻀﻴﺔ ﻃﺮﺣﺖ ﻟﻠﺤﻮﺍﺭ ﻭﻟﻴﺲ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻀﺮﻭﺭﻱ ﺑﺄﻥ ﻳﻨﺘﻬﻲ ﺍﻟﺤﻮﺍﺭ ﺑﺈﻗﻨﺎﻉ ﺃﺣﺪ ﺍﻷﻃﺮﺍﻑ ﺑﺎﻟﺮﺃﻱﺍﻷﺧﺮ ﻭ ﻳﺒﻘﻰ ﻟﻜﻞ ﺃﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﻗﻨﺎﻋﺎﺗﻪ ﻭﺃﺭﺍﺋﻪ.
((12)) ﻻﺗﻨﻘﺺ ﻣﻦ ﻗﺪﺭ ﻧﻔﺴﻚ ﻷﻧﻚ ﺗﺮﻯ ﺃﻏﻠﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﻨﺎﻗﺸﻴﻦ ﻳﻌﺎﺭﺿﻮﻥ ﺭﺃﻳﻚ ﺇﻥ ﻛﻨﺖ ﻣﻘﺘﻨﻊ ﺑﻬﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﺮﺃﻱ ﻓﺎﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻟﻴﺴﻮﺍ ﻃﺒﻘﺔ ﻭﺍﺣﺪﻩ ﻓﻲﺍﻟﺘﻔﻜﻴﺮ ﻭﻳﺨﺘﻠﻔﻮﻥ ﻓﻲ ﺃﻣﻮﺭ ﺷﺘﻰ .. ﻓﺎﻟﺬﻱ ﻳﻌﺠﺐ ﺷﺨﺺ ﻗﺪ ﻻﻳﻌﺠﺐ ﺍﻵﺧﺮ.
((13)) ﺇﺫﺍ ﻧﺎﻗﺸﺖ ﻓﻲ ﻗﻀﻴﺔ ﻓﻤﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﻢ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻌﻮﺩ ﻟﺘﻘﺮﺃ ﺍﻟﺮﺩﻭﺩ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﺳﺘﻜﺘﺐ ﺑﻌﺪﻙ ..ﻓﻠﺮﺑﻤﺎ ﻋﻘﺐ ﺃﺣﺪﻫﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﻧﻘﻄﺔ ﻗﺪ ﺃﺛﺮﺗﻬﺎ ﺧﻼﻝ ﻃﺮﺣﻚ ﻟﻴﺤﺼﻞ ﺍﻟﺘﻔﺎﻋﻞ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻷﺭﺍﺀ ﺍﻟﻤﺘﻨﺎﻗﺸﺔ .
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